Now that my wife has spanked and/or paddled me a few times in our Female Led Domestic Discipline lifestyle, I have begun to think about other forms of discipline that I have read about.
I have read a lot of blogs and stories written by others who engage in Domestic Discipline and have noticed a few recurring alternative forms of discipline mentioned. Typically they seem to be administered along with a spanking or paddling. I see things like writing sentences, corner time, grounding, early bedtime, Capzasin Cream, hot sauce or Icy Hot written about and am curious about their effectiveness.
My first question is simply; do you really need any other form of discipline before, after or during a proper spanking? I can definitely see where some of them might really enhance the discipline experience.
One of the things I have read about is Silent Spanking. This one really seems like it could be effective. Silent Spanking is applying Capzasin Cream or Icy Hot, or even hot sauce, to the ass cheeks causing a burning or stinging sensation which feels very similar to the stinging and burning during and after an actual spanking.
Silent Spanking would be a great way, I think, to address certain situations. I can think of a few times where we have been staying at our friend’s house for an extended visit and I have had too much to drink and said something rude or been a shit in some way. Being at someone’s house pretty much rules out having my wife take me to the bedroom and paddle the shit out of me. I can see where this would be a great way to administer discipline right there on the spot. Just quietly slip away to the bedroom or bathroom, have me drop my pants and underwear and then apply the Capzasin Cream or Icy Hot to my cheeks and have me secretly burning for a while in front of everybody. Then of course probably a proper spanking once we get home.
So far as the others go, I am really not sure. Possibly, but then I question whether they would really have any effect other than a little humiliation, inconvenience and irritation.
I would love to hear back from anybody who has experience with any of these methods. How does/did it work for you? Good? Bad? All comments welcome.
My wife and I have a great and loving marriage. She is so much better than I deserve! My wife is of a more moral and religious nature. Once in a great while I make the mistake of going out with my guy friends. and drinking too much and kind of carousing. it is accepted my both of us when i get home from such an evening i get my naked butt paddled–I know I got it coming and I bring the skinny stick from the garage when i come in. Little conversation about my needed paddling I just strip off and go over her lap and she paddles my naked butt and it hurt (as it should) Once it is over things are real good between us > she is good enough t spread lotion on my soe bare butt when we go to bed. take what I have coming For a small woman she has more arm than I have bare butt
Wow some guys have tough bare butts! Once in a while my long suffering wife has to paddle my naked butt and I totally have it coming and never argue just strip off and go over her lap and she paddles my bare butt and it hurts alot. She is good enough to put soothing lotion on my butt a while after and it really helps. Paddling works great in our very happy marriage—I have never heard of the painful things put on your paddled butt but it sounds awful Do you actually like pain? I hope your butt is not hurting as you read this! Jim
Yes capzasin does in fact BURN. Haven’t used it in a while because I forgot about it. It will not wash off easily and will burn the next day. I tried to wash it off my butt several hours after I used it. Good thing I was home alone because I was REALLY screaming like a 12 year old being spanked.
Thanks for reminding me.
Great to know. I will definitely talk to my wife about using that, especially when she is out of town and/or when the noise of a spanking would not be appropriate.
If I get caned I counth my canings all the way .Later my wife cream my ass .My canings wast about 3 weeks !