I have noticed an interesting dichotomy of feelings regarding this Female Led Domestic Discipline relationship my wife and I have adopted in our marriage. At the moment I am being led to the bedroom to be spanked or paddled by my wife, I am dreading it but now that it has been quite a few weeks since my last paddling I find myself almost yearning for that connection with my wife. I find myself somewhat eager for the next spanking.
As this relationship evolves, my wife has been spanking and paddling considerably harder and for longer sessions. It is becoming increasingly painful and effective without a doubt. Feeling tears welling up with every swat of her hand or paddle at the same time finding myself squirming in agony and wanting it to end is a very powerful feeling. That intense pain from the paddling accompanied by the humiliation of having failed and having to be disciplined like that is impossible to forget.
As the time goes by between spanking sessions I find myself thinking more about the connection that is made while I am naked, exposed, vulnerable and my wife is fully clothed and driving her point, and her disappointment with me, home by paddling or spanking me soundly and thoroughly. The love and trust I feel while in that position, submitting to the woman I love so dearly is even more powerful than the pain I experience while learning my lesson. So at moments like right now, as I write this, I somehow find myself almost looking forward to the next time I feel that dread on the way to the bedroom because I know after it is over and my eyes are dry again, I will again feel that love, trust and admiration for her a little stronger.
I have a great wife and a happy marriage but once in a great while my outrageous conduct does really merit a bare assed paddling from my wife–No argument from me–I got it coming–I just get the paddle,bare my butt and go over her lap. We must look ridiculous as I am a tall big guy and she is petite– I got it coming so i do not try to get out of it. We both seem to know at the same time when a bare paddling has to settle things–I have actually been the one to just come out and say it –“I know I got a paddling coming here is the paddle” It hurts on my naked butt however it is fine between us when it is over No one knows so no issue of shame or embarrassment–just a damn sore bare butt!
I do not fearit I just do not like it but when my wife has to paddle me she has put alot so I never argue just know it is coming bare my butt and bend over and hold my shins my butt out there! JIM
No argument as i said—-no harsh feeling afterward she has done what i deserve and has vented her anger on my bare butt and i have gotten exactly what I deserve—–so things are fine but my naked butt sure hurts She is good enough to put lotion on it when it hurts bad
A bare ass paddlin g from my wife is infrequent but it happens. I neither dread it really and I sure do not like any part of a paddling–ANY PART I totally deserve it there is no argument I know i got it coming–I usuall take a quick shower first when I am going to take it so I am naked and just go over her lap and it hurts but she has every right—no issue of embarassment or shaming We have a great realtionship so it would take alot more than a naked paddling to embarass me in front of my wife
How many spankings you get from your wife per mounth?
Haven’t been getting spanked long enough to have an answer. I do not think it will be too often moving forward, maybe 1 or 2.