I love my wife even more for spanking me

I have been thinking a lot about my relationship with my wife for the last few weeks since she has agreed to spank and paddle me. We set a few rules and goals for which she would hold me accountable for be discipline, spanking and paddling.

We each wrote down our ideas for rules and goals for me to adhere to and, is is usually the case, our lists were pretty much perfectly aligned. Ever since we first met and started dating, we have found that our interests and thoughts have aligned surprisingly well. We enjoy about 90% of the same things and because of that, we have a very close relationship. This is just one more, amazing way we have found to connect with each other.

My wife spanking and paddling me has allowed me to connect on such an intimate level I have never experienced before. With this deeper connection has come ever more powerful feeling of love, commitment, adoration and admiration. I have thought about this a lot lately trying to figure out exactly why the feelings are so powerful to me and this is what I have come up with so far:

First, I think that the amount of trust it takes to go to her and ask that she intentionally hurt me physically when I hurt her emotionally or let her down in any way is huge. Just having that sort of trust in someone is amazing, but giving it to her by requesting that she act on it takes it to a whole other level. I hope that makes sense?

Second, I can not even wrap my head around the type of love it takes for my wife to be willing to take me, her husband whom she loves very much, in hand and set aside the overwhelming desire not to hurt me in any way and then paddle me until until I am crying and sobbing because I have asked her to do so. To go against one of the core principals of a loving marriage, not to hurt each other, and intentionally hurt me because I have asked her for that, is a love I don’t think most couples will ever achieve.

Third, the intense connection with my wife that I feel when she spanks or paddles me is indescribable. Feeling how hard and how long she spanks me depending on what I have done allows me to be much more in tune with her feelings and the pain or frustration I have caused her. It is so different than just having her tell me how upset she is. Allowing her to paddle, spank or belt me for these things helps me better understand her side of things. It helps me know the pain, frustration or anger I have caused her. Isn’t that what every husband should want?

Anyway, these are some of my thoughts and realizations now that we have taken our marriage down this road. I am a better man for it and I am hopefully a better husband and I owe it to my beautiful wife.