Last night, as my wife and I sat on the couch watching tv, she turned to me and out of the blue told me my spankings would be getting more severe. She then reminded me that my goal date was coming up to have lost 50 lbs. The unfortunate thing is that I have only lost about 12 lbs. and there is no possible way for me to catch up to where I am supposed to be.
The truth is that a lot of things have happened in our life, several trips for both fun and family crisis and that made it very difficult to maintain my weight loss. My wife was not moved by that explanation. She reminded me that the date was coming up at the end of May and wanted me to know it was not going to be good day for me.
She has mentioned a couple of times in the past that she felt like she needed to spank and paddle me more severely than she had been, but the look on her face last night told me she was dead serious about it.
So tomorrow is not my final goal date, but I have a weekly goal of losing 3 lbs. The fact of the mater is that I have not had an official weigh in for several weeks, probably about 2 months, due to traveling. Because of that, I really don’t know what to expect. I have been weighing myself as I could with her gone but have not been held accountable for the 3 times I missed my goal. On top of that, I will be missing my goal tomorrow. When we sit down and look at my weight log, will she want to spank me for each time I missed my goal separately? Or will she just spank me one time for all 4 times I fell short?
Anyway, I am just pretty nervous and a bit scared and thought writing about it might help.
I will write about tomorrows spanking once I get a chance.
Wish me luck.
I experienced this in my FLR-DD marriage. Originally it was thought that missing my weigh in goal each week would motivate me to achieve it if it meant a sore butt. However, I frequently missed my weekly goal weight to the point that we decided a monthly goal would offer the ability to buckle down as the weigh in drew near resulting in frequent weight achievements which resulted in positive reinforcement and privileges. When that didn’t work and monthly goals were missed she informed me that the spankings would be harder and more aggressive and, missed monthly goals would necessitate weekly spankings after missed monthly goals until the next monthly goal and missed weight loss were back on track. Basically I had a bruised and blistered butt for at least the next month. It did keep me from sitting in my easy chair and resulted in more walks and a higher interest in watching what I put in my face at mealtimes. I got back on track and ahead of my goals in just a few months. Since then I’m holding steady at a healthy weight and we’ve moved on to my untamed potty mouth, which has always been a frustrating thing for her.
Oh wow! Thank you for sharing. I think I will talk to my wife about that. That is a great idea, some weeks are impossible to loose all the weight and a month gives you a chance at least and then the weekly spankings for the month would be a huge motivator as well.
I do not think you will make your weight goal so be prepared for a sore butt. I have a great wife but for drinking and crousing with my male friends it means an automatic bare paddling when I get home I know what i am getting so I just bring the stick in when I come in from the garage and strip off and take a sore paddling i know I deserve—-It sure hurts but i have no one to blame but myself There is no argument on my part—-I just go over her knee and take it like when mom and dad had to do the same thing when I was in high school. It hurts but then things are good between us–I am a very big strong man and she is small but when she is paddling my naked butt i would think has the arm of a major league pitcher my butt sure hurts—–Jim
A girlfriend used to paddle me to keep me on an exercize and diet program. Once a week I had to be weighed and receive discipline or reward. She was a bit extreme but it worked.
I think that you are really in for since you are so far behind your goals. Do you think she will make up for the missing spankings? I guess I’ll find out when you post about it.