Today turned out to be a pretty bad day for me. I missed my weight goal for the week and also broke one of my rules, I left some coffee mugs and french press on my desk for a couple of days. Wife was not the least bit happy with me. My wife took me…
Dreading a spanking versus yearning for a spanking
I have noticed an interesting dichotomy of feelings regarding this Female Led Domestic Discipline relationship my wife and I have adopted in our marriage. At the moment I am being led to the bedroom to be spanked or paddled by my wife, I am dreading it but now that it has been quite a few…
Discipline beyond spanking
Now that my wife has spanked and/or paddled me a few times in our Female Led Domestic Discipline lifestyle, I have begun to think about other forms of discipline that I have read about. I have read a lot of blogs and stories written by others who engage in Domestic Discipline and have noticed a…
I love my wife even more for spanking me
I have been thinking a lot about my relationship with my wife for the last few weeks since she has agreed to spank and paddle me. We set a few rules and goals for which she would hold me accountable for be discipline, spanking and paddling. We each wrote down our ideas for rules and…
My wife pegged me for over an hour
I mentioned in my last post, that I am traveling, and have been for over a week. The night before I left, my wife took me upstairs for an early bedtime. Once I was ready for bed she told me to lay face down on the bed and not ask any questions. I did as…
Traveling away from my wife and craving a spanking
I have been away from my wife on a trip with some friends, and for some reason, I have been craving a spanking for the last couple of days. I wish I understood what it is about me that dreads being spanked and paddled when I get in trouble with my wife but then when…
Masturbating about spankings
Here is something I am struggling with. Struggling in the sense of wondering “is this ok or not”. The spankings my wife gives me are anything but sexual. They are not foreplay spankings, in fact, we do not have sex on the same day I have been spanked just to make sure no lines get…
First Missed Goal Spanking
One of the things my wife and I agreed that I would be held accountable for with spankings is weight loss and management. We both agree that I should really lose about 40 lbs. We agreed to have weigh ins every Sunday morning at 10:00 and that I would be expected to lose 3 lbs…
A Vacation Paddling
We were recently on vacation in Mexico. As we were about to leave our house for pour trip, my wife walked up to me and handed me the paddle and simply asked “why wasn’t this packed?” I felt my face. go flush as I took it from her and placed it in my suitcase. I…
Should I ask for a worse spanking?
One of the rules my wife has set for me is to work out at least 3 hours a week. I managed to miss a workout last week so this morning my wife came and got me to take me to the bedroom for a spanking. I went with her as requested, she patted the…