To know, or not to know, that is the question. I think, for a spanked husband, it is far worse to know you will be getting a spanking than to get one spur of the moment.
What is the difference?
For a spanked husband to know he is going to be getting a spanking would be a situation where something has happened that when his wife finds out about it, he knows she will spank him for it. Or possibly a situation where a spanked husband and his wife are out in public and something happens that the spanking wife is not happy about and she tells her spanked husband that when they get home she will be administering a spanking.
In my case, I weigh-in every Friday morning by 10:00 and I must have lost 3 pounds for the week (until I reach my goal weight). If I have not lost at least 3 pounds, I get a spanking consisting of 20 swats with a paddle or strap (my wife’s choice). I check my weight pretty much every day so that I know if I need to adjust something by Friday. By Wednesday I have a pretty good idea if I am going to be safe Friday morning and by Thursday I know for sure what Friday morning will bring.
Thursday morning, seeing that I will not be making my weight loss goal means that all day Thursday and all morning Friday I know I will be getting a spanking from my wife. It sits in the back of my mind and I feel this pressure, this bundle of nerves in the pit of my stomach that grows bigger and bigger right up until the moment she asks me how it went.
The other scenario a spanked husband contends with is a spanking that he doesn’t know he will be getting. These spankings are more immediate behavior related. This would be an instance where maybe the husband and his wife are just going about their day to day routine at home and something happens. Maybe he is rude to her or talks back to her. In this scenario, the spanking wife marches her spanked husband to the bedroom and spanks him right then and there.
One thing I have a tendency to do, that my wife hates, is the heavy sigh when I am irritated that she has asked me to do something and I am in the middle of something else. I hate that I do it. I don’t want to do it. But for some reason, I do it. When it happens, my wife makes sure it will be a long time before it happens again. She escorts me straight to the bedroom, scolding me the entire way, has me take off my clothes and then paddles the attitude right out of me.
Knowing you are going to be getting a spanking at a certain point in the future, means you have all that time to think about it, to know it’s going to happen and to dread it.
Having one more spur of the moment changes the course of your day entirely. One moment you are watching the football game on tv without a care in the world, and the next moment, you are bare-ass naked being paddled by an unhappy wife.
Given a choice, I would choose the latter.
Oh man – still no updates! Hope to hear more from you soon!
Miss your updates – I hope all is well and that your wife is still regularly spanking and pegging you!